Lovers love and advice in a sweet letter



To My Dear Anik,



As white as these flowers are, my love for you has the purest intention. My soul has always reminded me: You are to love him not to hate him. Everytime I  get down and look at myself telling me. Why am I loving a person whom I am not sure of his love for me, coz i always hear impossibility from him. I see things you see between us but the heart made the bridge to connect us both.  God maybe has a reason why. Whatever it is. I leave it to Him.

Anyhow, I am here because my soul has asked me to bring good tidings for you from the heaven which you call Jana.

Get rid of the wall in front of us and hear me as I talk.

I don’t know if this line is familiar to you because for me ...it is since it is written in the Book of life which we call the Bible.

A Time for Everything…

There is a time for everything,
    and a season for every activity under the heavens:
2     a time to be born and a time to die,
    a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3     a time to kill and a time to heal,
    a time to tear down and a time to build,
4     a time to weep and a time to laugh,
    a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5     a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
    a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
6     a time to search and a time to give up,
    a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7     a time to tear and a time to mend,
    a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8     a time to love and a time to hate,
    a time for war and a time for peace.

My dear and my love. Somehow I understand your eagerness in learning new knowledge and proving yourself to anyone how good you are. But dear, when it’s not time...learn to be patient with yourself...do not force something. It might die in the process or have terrible result.

I am happy how excited you are joining those competition. I never thought it is a competition that was why I helped you BUT when I found out that its a competition. I felt bad. Why ? because dear, have I only known that its a competition. I won't put you in a situation where you will be put in embarrassment in the future days. I don't want you to be questioned WHY and experience disqualification because that would hurt you for sure, when it is very clear that your level is still “Low”. To join a competition like the WYEC  your level has to be C1 or a C2 in the CEFR .

Please try to click this link to know more about CEFR: http://www.cambridgeenglish.org/exams-and-tests/cefr/

I am not discouraging you. I see a lot of potentials in you. BUT my love IT IS NOT YET TIME for you...and you need to accept things as they are. SOON, when you continue learning and exposing yourself to the language. Then maybe, You’ll be able to reach C1 Or C2 level but for now dear you are on the process of going there. Okay :)

Being proud is good but too much of it is already on the evil side, denying your capacity too is denying of the God given talent ALLAH has given you. I love you so that is why I’m taking this time for you. I am not a perfect person ,  I also have my own frailties but God which you call ALLAH has allowed me to open both the Bible and the Quran to remind you of something that can help save you…

Chapter (57) sūrat l-adīd

Know that the life of the world is only play, and idle talk, and pageantry, and boasting among you, and rivalry in respect of wealth and children; as the likeness of vegetation after rain, whereof the growth is pleasing to the husbandman, but afterward it drieth up and thou seest it turning yellow, then it becometh straw. And in the Hereafter there is grievous punishment, and (also) forgiveness from Allah and His good pleasure, whereas the life of the world is but matter of illusion.

“There are three (types of) people to whom Allah will neither speak on the Day of Resurrection nor look at them nor purify them, and they will have a painful chastisement.” The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) repeated it three times. Abu Dharr (May Allah be pleased with him) remarked: “They are ruined. Who are they, O Messenger of Allah?” Upon this, the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, “One who lets down his lower garments (below his ankels) out of arrogance, one who boasts of his favours done to another; and who sells his goods by taking a false oath.” (Muslim)

This Saying of Hazrat Muhammad plainly explains the destruction of one`s all good deeds done if and when someone has made them known to others in order to attain their appreciation. This shows that there is a great virtue in hiding one`s noble actions from public as they are solely done for pleasing Allah SWT and not His creations. On another account, Rasulullah is reported to have said:
“If anyone wants to have his deeds widely publicized, Allah will publicize (his humiliation). And if anyone makes a hypocritical display (of his deeds) Allah will make a display of him.”

Verse Concepts
Thus says the LORD, "Let not a wise man boast of his wisdom, and let not the mighty man boast of his might, let not a rich man boast of his riches;
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Everything belongs to our Lord.
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,

[All] praise is [due] to Allah, Lord of the worlds – The Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful, sovereign of the Day of Recompense. It is You we worship and You we ask for help. Guide us to the straight path – The path of those upon whom You have bestowed favor, not of those who have evoked [Your] anger or of those who are astray. [Quran, 1: 1-7]

We are just channels of His grace and blessings to ourselves and others. So there is nothing to be brag about or boast. Everything is grace from Him.

But know that there is also time for everything. Overconfidence my dear kills. Have you heard about the story of The kid David and  Goliath the Giant: Goliath the giant was over confident he would defeat anyone because of his strength and size. David was Blessed by God, equipped with his hunting skill, he killed the overconfident giant and brought him down to earth where he laid his final rest.

Do things which you love to do not because others asked you to do it. I’ve been doing things which I love to do but in the past I was used to pleasing others too and it lead me to depression. Pleasing others is a sure way to failure, coz not all the time people  like our work. And if they like it , sometimes, they don’t really show how they appreciate it because it might boost self -esteem and they don’t like that. Most people want to be ahead more than the rest. Life for most is a competition, it gave birth to greed: that gave way to poverty for most people on earth and because of that unhappiness and dissatisfaction came and ruled the world which is not God’s purpose of our existence.  

I could feel how much you wanted good things in your life more than your brother and sister.
But hear me if your desire is to be greater than them. Dear, it might be time to think. You can do your prayers and ask God to teach your heart to be meek and humble and do things which is pleasing to ALLAH than men and yourself.

In the spirit of God whom you call ALLAH.
My soul loves you,

Jane



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